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The Bride's Boon
The BrideÓs Boon
Tuhfat Al-ÒArous
Mahmoud M Al-Istamblli
Translated By:
Dr. AbdElhamid Eliwa
Al Azhar University
http://www.islambasics.com
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Foreword
All praise is due to Allah, Exalted be He, the One who made
marriage lawful and superior. He made it for the continuation of
mankind and the population of the earth. He the Almighty said in the
clear verses of His Book:
{(And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from
among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He
has put love and mercy between your (hearts): Verily in that are Signs
for those who reflect)}
[Al-Rum 30:21]
These verses of the Noble Qur'an clearly show that in contrast to
other religions like Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism etc. which consider
celibacy or monasticism as a great virtue and a means of salvation,
Islam considers marriage as one of the most virtuous and approved
institutions. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) declared,
"There is no monasticism in Islam." He further ordained,
"O you young men! Whoever is able to marry should marry, for that
will help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty."[Al-Bukhari]
"Many the affectionate and fertile (woman), for I will compete with
the other Prophets with the number of my followers on the Day of
Judgement.Ñ [Ahmad and Tabarani]
The human desire, although common to all living beings, in case of
men and women there are some unique aspects. There are in Islam,
certain etiquette upon anyone who marries and wishes to consummate
his marriage with his wife. Most Muslims today, even those who exert
themselves in Islamic worship have either neglected or become totally
ignorant of these Islamic etiquette.
It is also important that you know how to deal with your wife to get
the reward of this worldly life and the Hereafter. The Messenger of
Allah (pbuh) is reported to have said,
ÐThere are three things that bring happiness: a righteous woman
whom you admire when seeing her, and whom you trust as regards
your honor and property when leaving her, a good mount that enables
you catch your friends, and a wide house that has many utilities. But
there are three things that bring adversity: a woman whom you dislike
when seeing her, who hurts you with her tongue, and whom you do
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not trust as regards your honor and property when leaving her, a bad
mount that bothers you if you heat it, and if you do not beat it, it does
not help you catch your friends, and a narrow house that has few
utilities."
[Narrated by Al-Hakim]
ÐWhoever Allah grants him a righteous woman has got one half of
his re1igion. Thus, he should fear Allah in the other half"
[Narrated by At-Tabarani]
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Table of Contents
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Foreword
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Introduction
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Marriage is an Act of Worship
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Marriage as AllahÓs Favor
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The superiority of Marriage
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Chastity
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Women Are on the Top of Worldly Enjoyment
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Misconception of Worship
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Before Marriage
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Righteousness and Marriage
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Adulterers only Marry Each Other
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Beware of Outer Appearance
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Looking at One's Prospective Partner
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Medical Check up before Marriage
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Undercutting AnotherÓs Betrothal
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The Constant Love and the Blooming Marriage
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Marrying Young Ladies
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A WomanÓs Guardian
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Islam and Love
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Marriage, the Best Bond for the Lovers
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Hard Love
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Blessed Marriage
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The Bride's Consent Before Marriage
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The WomanÓs Right to Marry a Suitable Match of Her
Choice
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The Presentation of Ones Daughter (for Marriage) To a
Religious Man
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The Bride's Dowry
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A Proposal of Marriage
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The Necessity of Giving the Dowry
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The Address While Marriage Proposal
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Recommendations before Marriage
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In the Bed room
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Caressing OneÓs Wife When the Consummation of Marriage
with Her
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What a Husband Says on the First Day of Marriage
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WomenÓs Speech
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What a Husband Says upon the First Time to Have Sexual
Intercourse with His Wife
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The Prohibition of Spreading Bedroom Secrets
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What a Husband Does on the Next Day of Marriage
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How Does a Husband Approach His Wife
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Reward Even While Having Sexual Intercourse
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Reward for Those Who Have Sexual Intercourse with Their
Wives on Fridays
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Sodomizing OneÓs Wife
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Guarding OneÓs Nakedness Except from His wife
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Intercourse with OneÓs Wife during Menstruation
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OneÓs Privacy before his Wife
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Wash Yourself for Another Sexual Approach
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