Juggler method.pdf

Matrix:

I have found the Juggler method to be the essential foundation of a successful PU. Of

course, you need a full dose of ASF to be completely successful. I consider Juggler

method to be essential because it keeps the conversation flowing. A dead conversation is

a dead sarge. A natural conversation is best. For me the main thing about Juggler

method is to amplify her responses and dig into her world by making statements, and

NOT INTERROGATE her with questions.

Example:

YOU: (Instead of, "So where are you from?")

Go "You look like a country girl"

she'll tell you where she is from.

[Then expand on that]

YOU: "I hear all the chicks from xxxx are really wild."

She'll tell some are...

YOU: You look like a nice-good chick, maybe too nice for me; I don't know

if we will get along.

She will tell she is wild too…

You expand and expand...get the picture

This gets the conversation started and rolling...Now you need to add the other ingredients

to build the attraction. Add C&F to her responses...add massive VALUE, Gimmicks

(cube, s.fields, ESP, etc.) KINO... Qualifiers...Go SS...Isolate and go Gunwitch...and

close.

As you rely on Juggler method as your foundation you will feel like a natural PUA cause

you are running freestyle!

Its really that simple :) As an exercise, try going purely Juggler and see how well it works

for you, if anything it will build your conversational skills.

Juggler:

I am a pretty good PUA and I care about each and every girl. I usually am seeing three or

four at a time but when I lose one I am sad. Lost one this week. A really sweet girl. She

had an innocent and affectionate personality I really enjoyed. It pains me she is out of my

life. However, the pain IS different from what you feel when you lose a girl you have

oneitis over. You will get to the point where you see this. You will care more for a girl's

soul then you care for her being in your life. Does that make sense? I am sad she will

miss the things I can bring to her. I am sad I will miss seeing the things I could bring out

of her.

It is like being a hunter. You study the prey. You learn how the prey thinks. You try to

anticipate the prey's moves. After awhile you can't help but somewhat admire, understand

and care for the prey. Of course, when you see the prey you are still going to kill it but

you have a kind of compasion in your heart.

Many people in this group will cop an antitude of not caring for girls. I think they are not

really being honest with themselves or they are not real artist or they are sloppy typers

and they mean they don't NEED any PARTICULAR girl.

If you come with the attitude that Neo-Rio suggests and remember you are the prize and

you can do many good things for a girl you will always win.

Juggler on “Always Be Expressing”:

The purpose of any story or 'material' should NOT be to entertain. It should be to ATTRACT. You

attract by showing your humanity (your feelings and reactions to life). You had many

opportunities to do that with in this story but missed them:

How did you feel about the dog?

You could have said, "my neighbor's dog was in front of his house. I love this dog. He is so

affectionate and fun. I actually taught him a couple of tricks.." or however you felt.

How did you feel about the dog hitting his head?

Here, you did express some reaction - which is good. But think about what you are saying. I can

see that you are not focused on how you are feeling with the story but simply looking to be

entertaining. You are taking the dog's potential injuries very lightly and are more concerned about

having to tell the owners about the dog then anything else.

You should have hammed it up here: "I was like, oh my gosh, you poor thing. I rushed over there

thinking maybe I would have to give mouth to snout resuscitation, which I really didn't want to do

but I would have to save the little guy. So I got over there and leaned over and checked for

breathing." Then I would pause here and let her ask, "What? Was he okay?" Then tell her, "He

suddenly sprung to his feet, almost giving me a heart attack. So you see I am lucky to even be able

to make this phone call."

Also, over all slow down and try to shorten your stories. Cut out the facts and put in more of how

you feel. When you can do that, you will be able to spin stories about the most simplest things into

attraction.

SexPDX:

As I mentioned in a thread of breakbeat's recently, I am now using a lot of what Juggler

has been recommending with regards to being genuinely expressive and keeping the

convo focused (as much as can be) on MYSELF and am relying on myself as basically

the sole source of ALL sarging material. I have noticed women being responsive to it.

Here is an example...

ME: Yeah, I am a psych major now. I am just interested in this class because I come

from a family of lawyers and cops. I changed from Computer Science because the

company paying for my school laid me off and...

HB: Ooooh I am sorry.

ME: Oh, don't be, it's the BEST thing that ever happened to me.

HB: REALLY?

ME: Oh yeah, I was in a deep state of denial about how much I was enjoying being a

software engineer. I was a different person when I first got the job at 20. I felt so proud

to have this great job and to be so well thought of and it was all so new. But as time went

on I started to enjoy it less and less but I felt trapped, it was....as if I had painted myself

into a corner. Now I am learning about the stuff I really like....

Notice particularly in the last quote I am targeting a wide range of expression. First I an

in a STATE OF DENIAL about my ENJOYMENT, then I was a DIFFERENT PERSON,

then I am PROUD, then I FEEL WELL THOUGHT OF, then it was NEW, then I

ENJOY IT LESS, then I FEEL TRAPPED, then I AM PAINTED INTO A

CORNER....and so on.

As long as you are focused on your reactions to the world as a human being you have an

unlimited source of material to work with. If you are sufficiently expressive in this way

she will both EV you and open up herself. If you get used to doing this normally and

naturally even when you are not actively sarging you will also experience deeper rapport

with people in general and have a more enriching experience as a human being. Kinda

cool how that works :-)

The way you know you are really having an incredible connection is that you don't have

to talk about what an INCREDIBLE CONNECTION there is or remind her of some

incredible connection that went on in her life at some point in the past. All that does is

communicate your lack of confidence in your ability to represent the ORIGINAL source

of those feelings you are trying to remind her of. Instead, you are focused on

communicating about the stuff that such a connection would actually be BASED ON.

Canned material should focus on something to do with YOU. The blond hair opener is

good for example. So is asking her opinion of some article of clothing you are wearing.

In transitioning, keep the focus still on you and move progressively towards a feeling of

free-flow expression between you and her.

To acknowledge the concerns of people who have stated that they feel a need to develop

their confidence with canned routines before trying something like this I will point out

that the confidence you develop doing that is illusory. The confidence is in the material,

not in you. When you are genuinely expressing your core self and are able to see women

responding well to that and not something you have read in a newsgroup your self-esteem

goes through the roof.

Hedge Killa:

Guys this shit is easy! Just talk about whats on your mind. Tell a story like

PDX does and reveal your emotions, your thoughts, your feelings. CHICKS EAT

THIS UP. It will seriously blow your mind. You don't have to try and be funny

or anything else. Just relate your humanity to her. It is very interesting and

she will most likely have NOT met a man who has done that before with her.

This Juggler stuff will put you miles ahead of 99% of the guys out there. Rely

on your humanity....people will flock to you because you are different and

interesting and CONFIDENT enough to say whats on your mind.

This stuff has improved my relations with everybody. Family, AFC friends, PUA

friends, and especially chicks! Share yourself and EXPRESS yourself.

When you tell a story...LIVE the story over and relate whatever thoughts and

emotions you had at the time and even the ones you are having now that you look

back on it. Make it about YOU! As Juggler says: ALWAYS BE EXPRESSING. This shit

is money. I hope you guys recognize the truth in these recent posts by

breakbeat SexPDX and myself. This is coming from the heart. This stuff will

drastically improve your game because it's EASY and it's YOU. Have an

expressive week.

PS: I'll post my most recent stuff to give you an example as PDX did. When I

have some time (Damn, these new 'routines' are ENDLESS!).

Juggler on Statements vs. Questions:

There is nothing wrong with a girl asking you questions. This means she is

interested in you. It is an indicator of interest. You want to encourage and

reward her curiosity.

However the dynamic you want to set up in most situations is the two of you

both offering up your thoughts on deep feelings, passions and favorite sexual

positions.

Yes, when someone asks a question it is taking the lead, sort of. It is really

a false lead though. To really lead you need to take a chance and put yourself

out there. Just like I continually tell guys on this list. Make statements not

questions. It is too easy just to sit back and ask questions and not expose

yourself to risk.

Okay, having said all that, what you want is for her to ask you serious

interesting questions. If you ever feel a girl's question is leading you away

from seduction then you want to reframe it for her.

You: "A better question would be, 'What kind of person makes the best lover?'"

Keep tone easy and sympathetic. Then you go on to answer your new question.

This accomplishes the task of not answering what you consider a stupid question

while at the same time letting her feel her curiosity is appreciated, all the

while staying on target for seduction.

Juggler on talking about sex:

Humor is a good thing, but unless you are using a GM style approach, joke

around about everything else with girls but sex. People joke about sex because

they are not comfortable discussing it seriously. Speak of it candidly and you

will make many women crazy with lust and you will impart them with the

knowledge that you WILL seriously lead them to sex if they wish.

Juggler on Stories:

In general try to avoid searching for good material.

Some of the other posters are on target here when they say anything can be a story.

You need to develop your ability to relate and express a story. Once you get good at this,

you can create interest out of thin air.

Anybody can get attention by telling a story which is in it's own nature entertaining. That

type of 'good' material WILL keep attention, but in the end it is the story that is

interesting and not you. That is bad.

I cannot express this strongly enough. AVOID INTERESTING STORIES. They can be a

mirage, which will lead you away from seduction.

Also keep in mind that 'interesting' material can be hijacked. You will be the center of

attention, talking about some great topic and then some other guy or CB just has to get in

their story or views on the same subject and then boom, you are no longer the center of

attention.

Instead develop your ability to make the mundane fascinating. Once you can do this,

then your listener will associate good feelings with you and not your material.

For example, I sometimes challenge guys to use their most fascinating material, whether

it be palm reading, NLP, a story about seeing two girls fight or whatever and I will just

recite my grocery shopping list. Then we will see who does better. That is what you need

to do. Get really freaking good at making your groceries interesting. Do that and you will

realize that it is not what you talk about, but how you talk about it.

Use dramatic pauses, hooks and expressions. Really get into your story. Also never just

spill your story out. Instead make your listeners want to hear more. Pause and look at

them. Wait for their interest to show. Play on their curiosity and refuse to 'entertain' them.

They must show interest on their faces and in their questions or else do not continue -

your story and performance is valuable. Try not to just give it away.

As far as sexual stories go, personally I talk about some of the things that have happened

to me with other women. This is typically a money subject. The stories subtly relate ideas

I want to get across (You may want to relate different ideas) Like I am good in bed, I am

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