Sexual Rapport Modelling.pdf

Sexual Rapport Modelling

First Edition

By Keanu J. Jagger

Nonverbal Sexual Cuing

Table of Contents

Introduction

Attraction Versus Being Attractive

Layers of the Brain

The Limbic Brain

Attraction Against Will

Ordering Food

Importance of Practice

Keep a Journal

Points to Remember

The Voice

Beautiful Voice at 80

Talking on the Phone

The True Story of Miranda

Volume

Resonance

Tempo

Get A Tape Recorder

Exercise: Voice Assessment

Just Relaaax….

Breathing

Posture And Breathing

The Relaxed Breath

Breathing Exercise

Volume Exercise

Chest Resonance

Resonance and the Larynx

Resonance: The “H” Sound

Resonance: “H” Words

Resonance: “ng” words

Speaking More Slowly

Tempo Exercise

Putting it all together - Harvest Moon

The TREV Formula

Points to Remember

Smiling

Smiling With The Sales Clerk

The Story of Fred

The Story of Eric

Stern or Smile?

Learning to Smile

Smile In Mirror Exercise

Visualization Smile Exercise

Store Smile Exercise

Points to Remember

Soft Playful Walking Smile

Mall Exercise

Day Exercise

Points to Remember

Body Language And Posture

Moving Deliberately

Moving Deliberately Exercise

Open Body Posture

Open Body Posture Exercise

Story of Jason

Standing Straight

Posture Exercise

Points to Remember

The Power of Touch

Why Touch Works

How To Touch A Woman

Playful Touching

That First Touch

The Double-Clasp Handshake

Points to Remember

The Secrets of Scent

Men Can’t Smell

My Friend’s Smelly Experiment

Women Like Good Smelling Guys

Shower And Body Wash

Shave Your Pits

Deodorant and Antiperspirant

All About Your Mouth

Cologne

Get To It

Points to Remember

Physical Intrusion of Intimate Space

The Secret of Intimate Space

What Fred Did

Physical Intrusion Exercise

Points to Remember

Eye Contact

Eye Contact From Afar

Intimate Eye Contact

Points to Remember

Conclusion

Combining the Cues

House Party

Street Approach

Now Put It Into Action!

Visualization Rehearsal

Why Visualize

Memorizing is not Enough

Repetition and Intensity

The Exercises

Relaxing

Exercise #1: Visualize The Hand

Exercise #2: Transformation

Exercise #3: Multi-Senses

The Beach

The Meadow

Exercise #4: The Woman

Conclusion

Walking Smile Visualization Rehearsal

Body Language Visualization Rehearsal

Touch Visualization Rehearsal

Physical Intrusion Visualization Rehearsal

Eye Contact Visualization Rehearsal

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Introduction

Hello everyone, I’m Keanu Jagger and welcome to my Nonverbal Sexual Cuing audio series. To start with let’s go over

exactly what Sexual Rapport Modelling is. Sexual Rapport Modelling is all about how to effectively communicate with

other human beings. Think about it, you cannot not communicate. No matter what you do, or don’t do, you’re

expressing an emotional state to other people through nonverbal signals. Even if you simply sit on the floor without

twitching a single muscle with a slack expression on your face you’re still announcing to the world, “Don’t approach

me,” “Don’t bother me.” And when you think about it, everything you’ve achieved in your life hinged on your ability

to communicate effectively. How much money you make, how your family treats you, the quality of your friends, and

the quality of the women in your life are all a direct consequence of your communication skills. You’ve literally created

all of these things and relationships by speaking and acting them into being. You could say we literally communicate

our lives into being what they are – or what they are not.

Just look at the highest paid people in the world… they’re all good communicators. Oprah Winfrey. Bill Gates. Warren

Buffett. Highly paid professionals like lawyers, talk show hosts, CEOS, rock stars… they all make their living as

professional communicators of ideas, communicators of feelings, and communicators of action. Unfortunately in many

ways, the economic system we live in today encourages most of us to be little more than cogs in the company machine,

to shut up, do our work like we’re told, and not talk back. And when we get home we’re so tired sometimes all we want

to do is turn on the television and fuzz out in front of it. The irony is we now live in an unprecedented age where

thousands upon thousands of people are around us all the time… and yet our communication skills… our understanding

of how we can use our voice and body… and the art of creating sexual rapport with others… has never been worse and

unpractised from lack of use or experience. This is what we will work together on to change throughout this course. But

before we get to that, let’s answer the question, what does sexual rapport modelling mean exactly?

Sexual… Rapport… Modelling… I mean Sexual as in the sexual sub communication that goes on between people all

the time - the communication between people that carries a sexual element. Most people aren’t consciously aware of

their sexual sub-communication, but we all do it on one level or another. Sexual Rapport Modelling takes this sexual

sub communication process, which we do everyday, without much thought, and turns it into a conscious process that

you can control and direct to see better results in all areas of your life.

Rapport… rapport as in accord, harmony, a one-one-one relationship with another person. The kind of openness and

trust within a relationship that allows you to influence another person’s thought process or feelings. For example, you

probably have good rapport with your friends when you’re hanging out with them… when you’re with your friends you

comfortable, relaxed, and trusting.

Sexual Rapport Modeling is about taking that unconscious state of rapport that you have with certain people and

consciously creating it between you and others.

And Modeling… after all, people throughout the world have all sorts of remarkable communication abilities; like the

ability to easily meet new people, or the ability to start a conversation in any situation, or the ability to communicate

sexually through non-verbal signals. Each of these abilities is a code locked inside that person’s mind.

Through modeling the internal processes and behaviors of exceptional individuals, we can model, copy and use for

ourselves their exceptional abilities and skills. Modeling allows you to consciously develop the skills that they

unconsciously already do. Modeling takes what we know already works and installs it into yourself.

When you put these three words together… sexual… rapport… and modeling… you get something very powerful. And

with it I’m going to show you throughout the courses the art of charisma enhancement; infusing confidence, charm, and

playfulness into everything you do; the ability to create sexual attraction with others and hold their attention in a way

they’ve never experienced before. I’m going to teach you how to remove all the bad programming that’s been holding

you back all this time and opening up all the social possibilities in your life, expanding your potential as a full, happy

human being with friends, love, and happiness.

But what makes a man “irresistible”, or “charismatic”, or “sexy”? “Irresistible”, “charismatic”, and “sexy” are all vague

terms women use to describe the kind of man they want, along with, “a good sense of humor”, “funny”, or “a take-

charge kind of guy”. But none of these terms tell us what we really need to know… how exactly to become that kind of

person that women really respond to and are attracted to.

You could read all of the world’s published books and slowly put bits and pieces of the puzzle together, but that would

be like trying to piece together the Titanic from the bottom of the ocean floor. You’d almost wish someone would just

hand you an instruction sheet where you could follow steps A through E and reliably lean how to expand your social

possibilities beyond what you thought possible with consistent results.

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Well, Sexual Rapport Modeling is just that. Because I don’t give you just a theory, but I give you a series of carefully

planned exercises I’ve put together over the past number of years that WILL change your life.

Attraction Versus Being Attractive

Now a lot of men fail to make the distinction between being attractive and creating attraction. This is one of the

primary reasons men fail to succeed in creating sexual rapport with women.

Now if you’re not particularly attractive, women will use their conscious critical mind to rule you out. For example,

they’ll see you and judge you and think to themselves, “Well, he’s not my type.”

Well, probably 85% of men or more are not attractive enough to get attention from women based on their looks alone.

And most of these all men worry about whether they look good enough to attract the kind of women that they want to

meet. So most guys never approach a woman or take a risk because disinterest on her part would blow their ego.

If a woman showed any disinterest in them it would make them crash into the reality that he is NOT attractive enough

for women to fall all over him instantaneously. And that might imply a lot of bad things – like maybe you’re a failure in

some way or your charisma and personality is lacking.

That’s why EVERYONE has hesitation at times around women. The hesitation and fear is there to protect our egos

from an ego crash. It’s there to protect us from the idea that we’re bad with women since feeling desirable is so

important to our sense of self-image.

And it’s true – a woman can decide whether she feels attraction to you or not based on your “look” or our looks. It is a

conscious choice for her. She is the selector, she is the chooser, and this makes men run scared that they can’t control

her choice.

However, being attractive to women and creating attraction in women are two completely different things entirely. You

can be the ugliest mule look-alike in the world and still make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you in a way that she

has no control over.

Layers of the Brain

The key is to understand where feelings of lust, desire, and attraction originate in the human brain. You see, our brain

has evolved, been built up over millions of years, through a series of stages each one added upon the last.

The first, most primal part of our brain is the brain stem, which is the oldest and smallest region in the human brain.

Our brain stem controls various processes such as breathing, our heartbeat, and the flight or fight response.

The second part of our brain, wrapped around the basic brain stem and having evolved later, is the limbic brain. The

limbic brain is responsible for core emotional experiences including lust, desire, and attraction. Lacking language, the

limbic brain is both impulsive and instinctual. It’s sometimes called the pleasure center because sexual stimuli that we

experience pass directly to it, which in turn sends signals to the pelvic region.

Later, over millions of more years of evolution, layers of more sophisticated reasoning have been added upon this

foundation. On top of the limbic brain we have now what is called the neocortex, the newest part of our brain. The

neocortex is considered the rational brain that provides logic and thought. It allows processes such as speaking and

planning and critical judgment.

The Limbic Brain

What Nonverbal Sexual Cuing does is directly stimulate the limbic brain of a woman, again the part of the brain that

deals with lust, desire, and attraction. At the same tine, sexual Cuing bypasses her neocortex, the part of her brain that

rationalizes reasons to hesitate or shut down sexual urges or judge you based on your looks.

In other words, by dealing exclusively with a woman’s limbic brain, you’re directly communicating to where her

feelings of lust and mating begin rather than trying to logically convince the part of her brain responsible for thoughts

and critical judgment to be attracted to you.

This is why I said earlier that an unattractive man may not be attractive to a woman, but he can still create

ATTRACTION in her by sexually stimulating her limbic brain through the techniques in this course.

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Her neocortex may say, “He’s not attractive, he’s not me type,” but her much older, limbic brain may simultaneously

feel desire and lust – and the impulsive, instinctual limbic brain will always win the fight. In fact, the limbic brain so

strong that if she feels lust for you her neocortex will begin to rationalize reasons why she likes you as it cannot

contradict what her limbic brain feels. The neocortex must come in alignment with her limbic urges eventually. Her

thoughts must align with her feelings eventually.

Attraction Against Will

As an example of an experience that happened to me, I had just purchased a condominium and I was filling out some

paperwork in the condominium’s main office. The woman who worked there was about 55 years old, overweight, and

not attractive at all to me. To reiterate, I was NOT attracted to her and had already ruled her out as someone I would

even remotely be attracted to based on the standards of my critical, judging rational mind.

After I finished filling out the forms however, this woman started to open up to me and tell me different stories about

her life. I was in no particular rush, her stories interested me and she exuded a warm rapport, so I stayed and chatted.

After a while I found myself laughing at her stories and then she dropped into a sexy voice tonality. She began to drop

hints to me, talking about movies and how Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, 20 years Demi’s junior, made a good

couple and how he probably gave her good sex.

Well, after about an hour I had to go. As I left I realized something very, very important. In no way was I attracted to

this rather old overweight woman – my conscious critical mind filtered out the possibility altogether. Yet, as I was

walking down the hall outside her office I was beginning to think some rather better thoughts about her. Her sexy voice

tonality, her making me laugh, her making me feel at ease and comfortable with good rapport, and the sexual hints and

innuendo were all sexual cues that triggered feelings of attraction in me.

This attraction was not my conscious choice. She had bypassed my critical mind and directly triggered my limbic brain.

I was responding to her sexual cues, in a sense, against my better judgment and the experience was much more

powerful on me than I’d expected. Even now I think back, “God, I’m glad I did not act on my impulses!” but that’s

now me thinking after the fact with my critical rational judging mind. The immediacy of her sexual cues are long gone

now. But at the time, I felt much more receptive to her.

Ordering Food

As another example, I went to Pollo Tropical, a restaurant, to pick up some food to eat. The young lady at the register,

she must have been about 22, asked, "How can I help you," with a rather beaten-down look on her face. As I

approached, I gave her a big, wide smile while making eye contact and held it for a few beats. Then I responded by

saying, "hi." In response her demeanor transformed and gave me a big smile back.

She asked again, "How can I help you?" but enthusiastically this time. I said, "Hmm... give me the... mambo combo,"

with another big smile and with a slow sexy voice while making direct eye contact with her.

At this point she started to giggle. So I stretched out my order banter for a good five minutes just reading off the menu -

no other real conversation whatsoever. Smiling, eye contact and voice tonality, nothing more. Well soon she was

giggling and I asked her for her number. I got it and we hadnt even exchanged a normal word of conversation with

each other.

So now you get an idea of how, through Nonverbal Sexual Cuing, you can bypass a woman’s conscious mind of critical

judgment and directly stimulate her lower limbic brain, a much older part of the brain, where thoughts of lust and

mating begin.

I can tell you right now with absolute certainty, that changing how you sexually communicate nonverbally with your

voice tonality, body language, eye contact patterns, smile, touch, and more is the fastest way to create attraction and

sexual rapport with women… the way to completely bypass that thinking part of her brain that would normally think to

itself, “Oh he’s not attractive enough,” or “he’s too old for me”, or “he’s too young for me,” or simply “he’s just not my

type.”

Importance of Practice

Now before I go on, I want to make it crystal clear that this is not a passive course. You must do the work. You must

practice. I’m shocked by the number of people who go through life expecting something and doing nothing. The

change cannot come from me. I can help guide you along in the right direction, but in the end you are responsible for

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