Your Guide to Stronger Relationships.pdf

Table of Contents

Part I. Maintenance

It’s Too Much Work

Part II. Intimacy

Emotional Intimacy

Forgive Yourself

Physical Intimacy

Part III. Afﬁrmation

The Need for Afﬁrmation

Part IV. Communication

Why Communication Fails

It Goes Both Ways

What to Say, What Not to Say

Part V. Conﬂict Resolution

When Action is Needed

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Secrets to a Relationship That Lasts

The sad thing about seduction is that most

women only apply seduction techniques

to get a man. Once they have him, they

stop trying. They enjoy the security that

a committed relationship brings and use it

as an excuse to stop working as hard on

the relationship as they did when they ﬁrst

started dating.

Think back on your dating history. Every relationship you’ve had--except for the

one you’re currently in--has ended. That means that you can expect almost EVERY

relationship you have to break up eventually. The reasons that a relationship ends

can be many. He moved away, you moved on, you both moved apart. You argued

until the love was dead, you got bored, you couldn’t make a decision until it was

too late.

But you CAN keep this from happening. With commitment, you can ensure that

each relationship you’re in is a positive, healthy experience. You can be the girl

that guys don’t want to let go.

The one thing you can do to give your relationship a ﬁghting chance to survive is

this:

Build, practice, and perfect your relationship skills.

Many women know tons of information about getting a man. Few women know

tons about keeping a relationship alive. This is often because the only way to gain

better relationship skills is to be in a long-term relationship. Once women are in

long-term relationships, they tend to act in the same ways until negative behaviors

become habits.

This bonus book will help you improve your relationship skills. Read it whether or

not you are in a relationship, a marriage, or simply want to know how to keep the

guy of your dreams once you meet him.

In the following pages, I’ll teach you the ﬁve keys to successful long-term rela-

tionships: maintenance, intimacy, afﬁrmation , communication, and conﬂict

resolution .

Enjoy reading!

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Part I. Maintenance

It takes so much effort to ﬁnd that one

guy you click with. You have to attract

the attention of dozens of guys to get

one or two to ask you out. Then, out

of the handful of ﬁrst dates you go on,

maybe only one guy really clicks with

you. You go out with him a few times,

and voila! You think there’s something

there.

The path from ﬁrst attraction to full-

ﬂedged relationship is so haphazard,

so uncertain, and so fraught with perils

that we should treasure each and every

relationship while it lasts. Love is often

brief: it arrives, bright and sparkling, one

morning—only to leave in the cover of

darkness.

The ﬁrst lesson you need to learn to

keep your relationships strong is that

love can never be taken for granted.

Love needs a continual ﬂow of positive, nourishing energy to grow. Unless you

continue to add fuel, its strong ﬂame will begin to ﬂicker and die.

It never ceases to amaze me to see the number of women who throw away

wonderful relationships because they thought they could stop trying once they

bagged their man. They stopped trying to stay attractive; they stopped trying to

make every time together a wonderful experience. They stopped trying to win his

heart.

You have to keep earning your man’s love, feeding it and reinforcing it if you want

your relationship to last. “Going steady” doesn’t give you the right to treat him

with any less care, attentiveness, or sensitivity than you did on your ﬁrst dates.

Most people put on their “best face” when they’re on their ﬁrst date with a

potential partner. They’re on their best behavior and try to do everything right.

Yet once the relationship becomes stable, they feel as if they’ve passed the test.

They don’t have to try anymore. They can let their “real selves” show.

And that’s why many relationships fail. The playful, mutually pleasurable, admiring

dynamics established during courtship collapse as both partners revert back to

previous behavior patterns. It takes a lot of effort to sell yourself to another

person, and most people believe that they don’t have to keep selling themselves

to their partner once they’re in an established relationship.

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But they’re wrong.

Think of your current job. How much effort did it take to get it? Did you have to

send out dozens of résumés, do your research, answer classiﬁeds, and interview

over and over again? Then, once you got the job, did the work stop there? Of

course not. Once you accept a job, you’re expected to perform to the standards

indicated by your résumé. If you said you were skilled enough to accomplish tasks

to a certain level of quality, then your employer expects you to be able to do it.

Getting the job doesn’t mean that it’s time to slack. Getting the job means that

you get the opportunity to put into practice all the talents, skills, and abilities you

have.

A relationship is much the same. When you’re courting, you’re trying to convince

the other person that you would complement his life. In career speak, you want

him to think that you’d be an asset to him. With you at his side as a partner, he

will have more fun, enjoy his life more, and do more exciting things.

So when you pass that interview—the

ﬁrst date—and ﬁnd yourself “hired” as

his girlfriend, it means that you have the

chance to show him how great you ﬁll

the position. You said that you were fun

to be with, optimistic, playful, and a great

communicator. Well, now it’s time to show

off those skills.

Otherwise, if he ﬁnds that the girl he “hired”

is nothing like the girl he “interviewed,”

you may just ﬁnd yourself ﬁred.

This may seem like a harsh assessment. A

relationship, you may argue, is nothing like

a job. A relationship doesn’t have job performance reviews. Besides, everyone

expects a boyfriend or girlfriend to slack off after a while. In fact, it’s part of

becoming comfortable with one another, when you don’t have to worry about

guarding your behavior around your partner.

I won’t disagree, but let me ask you this: is losing respect for him part of

becoming more comfortable with your partner? Is picking ﬁghts with him part

of becoming more comfortable? Is no longer listening to him part of becoming

more comfortable?

Many of the behaviors that we consider to be average, ordinary, and acceptable

in a relationship—quite frankly—are not. If making fun of your partner, criticizing

him, making his life uncomfortable when he’s not doing what you want, or

pestering him are perfectly ﬁne behaviors in your mind, then you need to read this

book closely.

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