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“Conversation Chemistry: How to use the power of communication to
create and maintain unstoppable attraction with the Opposite Sex!”
by Mia Summer & Amy Waterman
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Copyright © 2007 MeetYourSweet.com
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We know that you’ve got the smarts to take care of most areas of your life. So
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Contents
Introduction
10
How This Book is Structured
12
How to Make the Most from This Book
13
Enlist All the Help You Can Get
16
Part I. The Principles of Great Communication
17
Why Men and Women Communicate Differently
19
The Stages of Attraction
26
Why We Have to Talk to Attract a Mate
31
Intuitive Communication
34
Unconscious Communication Techniques
35
Understanding Rapport
36
Building Rapport
37
Warm up to them gradually.
38
Demonstrate personal interest.
39
Tell a personal story.
40
Establish common ground.
41
Demonstrate that you understand them.
42
Listen actively.
44
Mirror and match.
45
Go “wide and deep.”
47
Lead them on an emotional journey.
49
It’s All In Your Mind: Conversational Turnoffs
52
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Mistake #1: Wanting People to Like You
53
Mistake #2: Worrying About What to Say
60
Mistake #3: Expecting People to Tell the Truth
63
Mistake #4: Hiding Your Thought
65
Mistake #5: Trying to Prove Yourself
69
It’s All In Your Mind: Conversational Turnons
72
Key #1: Match the Mood
73
Key #2: Find Out How You Are Similar
75
Key #3: Be Interested in Them
78
Key #4: Let Your Body Do More of the Talking
81
Key #5: Project Positive Energy
85
Summing Up
89
Part II. DATING
90
1. Face Your Fears
95
2. Don’t Stop to Think
97
3. No Expectations
98
4. Visualization
99
How to Start a Conversation
100
1. Have a Wing.
101
2. Have a Prop.
101
3. Have a Reason.
105
Starting a Conversation: Techniques
108
What Should You Say?
110
How to Make a Great First Impression
115
Posture
115
Eye Contact
117
More First Impression Tips and Tidbits
120
How to Talk About Yourself
122
How to Avoid the “Brush-Off”
129
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